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alikiWill update with a photodump soon, but things I realized on this trip:
We're obsessed with cleaning ourselves. Most restaurants provide a bowl of cool water with fresh lime to wash your hands before a meal, and then individually-wrapped wet wipes to clean your hands after. Restaurants not only have bathrooms where you can go to do your business, but if you just want to wash your hands, they provide sinks outside the bathrooms (so you dont have to enter the dirty bathroom where people are doing #1 and #2) to wash your hands before and after a meal.
Almost all families (Muslim, Buddhist, and Hindus) remove shoes prior to entering the home. Shoes are considered extremely unclean: we do not bring them in the house, we do not pack them in our luggage with our clothes, we never put our shoes on our bedspreads! Most families practice taking a shower upon returning home as it's considered unclean to spread the "outside dirt" all over the house.
We greet anyone older than you in a room. Which means when you enter a room and you're fairly young, you end up spending 20 minutes saying "Good morning, Aunty Jane! Hello, Uncle Thomas! Hello, Big Sister Susy!" Anyone who is a generation older than you is "uncle" or "aunty". Anyone less than a generation older than you is "big sister" or "big brother". Use discretion with females and always underestimate their age. This is a practice I noticed poignantly this year, as Erika was considered a "rude child"-- she enters a room like an inconspicious wallflower. She hides behind my thighs or sneaks in along the wall to hide in a corner behind furniture, and then tries to quietly observe the scene before integrating herself... but the entire Asian community looks at her and puts the spotlight on her by saying: "HEY YOU DIDN'T SAY HELLO!!" oh lolz.
We eat five or six small meals a day. And each meal seems to take one hour because we sit, and wait for the food to arrive, and eat, and talk, and laugh, and drink our ice drinks, and talk some more... and when we get up to leave, an hour later, someone will say: "So where are we going next for food?" You can also show up at someone's house, say you've already had dinner, and they'll say: "Okay, so just a small bowl of rice?" and put out a heaping pile of rice and ten savory dishes for you to eat.
We're obsessed with cleaning ourselves. Most restaurants provide a bowl of cool water with fresh lime to wash your hands before a meal, and then individually-wrapped wet wipes to clean your hands after. Restaurants not only have bathrooms where you can go to do your business, but if you just want to wash your hands, they provide sinks outside the bathrooms (so you dont have to enter the dirty bathroom where people are doing #1 and #2) to wash your hands before and after a meal.
Almost all families (Muslim, Buddhist, and Hindus) remove shoes prior to entering the home. Shoes are considered extremely unclean: we do not bring them in the house, we do not pack them in our luggage with our clothes, we never put our shoes on our bedspreads! Most families practice taking a shower upon returning home as it's considered unclean to spread the "outside dirt" all over the house.
We greet anyone older than you in a room. Which means when you enter a room and you're fairly young, you end up spending 20 minutes saying "Good morning, Aunty Jane! Hello, Uncle Thomas! Hello, Big Sister Susy!" Anyone who is a generation older than you is "uncle" or "aunty". Anyone less than a generation older than you is "big sister" or "big brother". Use discretion with females and always underestimate their age. This is a practice I noticed poignantly this year, as Erika was considered a "rude child"-- she enters a room like an inconspicious wallflower. She hides behind my thighs or sneaks in along the wall to hide in a corner behind furniture, and then tries to quietly observe the scene before integrating herself... but the entire Asian community looks at her and puts the spotlight on her by saying: "HEY YOU DIDN'T SAY HELLO!!" oh lolz.
We eat five or six small meals a day. And each meal seems to take one hour because we sit, and wait for the food to arrive, and eat, and talk, and laugh, and drink our ice drinks, and talk some more... and when we get up to leave, an hour later, someone will say: "So where are we going next for food?" You can also show up at someone's house, say you've already had dinner, and they'll say: "Okay, so just a small bowl of rice?" and put out a heaping pile of rice and ten savory dishes for you to eat.
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Date: 2013-09-05 11:23 pm (UTC)