update on my life
Nov. 9th, 2004 12:43 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
So at 24, I got diagnosed last week with eczema. I thought that was something that started in childhood like chicken pox, and if you made it past a certain age, you didn't have to deal with it. The worst was hearing my doctor say: "Well, you can never cure eczema, you just have to learn ways to deal with living with it." ARGH! It felt like you could've substituted any given sexually transmitted disease like herpes into that box. I almost visualized those herpes commercials on TV where the woman goes kayaking, mountain climbing, and snuggles with some guy with low occurences of outbreaks... I cringe. Eczema is way gross. I look like an alligator with serious red and inflammed skin.
Also, as I walked to work this morning at 4am, I realized this is why I hate fall and winter. The sheer fact that I go to work before the sun rises, and don't leave work till the sun sets (I left yesterday at 7pm) is really depressing. Really. When I have to turn the front porch light on as I leave the house so I can get my keys into the car, and return at night, thankful that I left the porch light on because now I can find the keyhole in the front door-- it's sick! Sick, I tell you! My one neener-neener comment would have been that I don't turn into a deathly-pale vampire because I work outdoors and keep my tan, but the stark reality is that trying to have dexterity in your fingers in 28 degree Fahrenheit weather (sub-freezing!) in the dark, on a rocking boat, with splashing, wet, ocean waves, that six warm thermal layers of clothing don't keep the chill off you and your toes felt like they fell off after two hours is nothing to brag about.
Also, as I walked to work this morning at 4am, I realized this is why I hate fall and winter. The sheer fact that I go to work before the sun rises, and don't leave work till the sun sets (I left yesterday at 7pm) is really depressing. Really. When I have to turn the front porch light on as I leave the house so I can get my keys into the car, and return at night, thankful that I left the porch light on because now I can find the keyhole in the front door-- it's sick! Sick, I tell you! My one neener-neener comment would have been that I don't turn into a deathly-pale vampire because I work outdoors and keep my tan, but the stark reality is that trying to have dexterity in your fingers in 28 degree Fahrenheit weather (sub-freezing!) in the dark, on a rocking boat, with splashing, wet, ocean waves, that six warm thermal layers of clothing don't keep the chill off you and your toes felt like they fell off after two hours is nothing to brag about.
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Date: 2004-11-09 10:00 am (UTC)The best solution for prevention is to slather on some baby oil or sunflower oil or body oil or the like, about a quarter-size amount for each body part, right before you get out of the shower. Don't wash it off, just sort of rinse a second. Pat gently dry with a towel, leaving some time for the oil to soak in to your skin a bit. Alternately, that Olay MoistuRinse stuff works okay and is less messy, but not quite as effective.
Salt water and chlorine aggravate the shit out of eczema. I know you can't avoid that stuff due to your job, but rinse off as quickly as possible and apply a light body oil or a really rich lotion, and it will help.
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Date: 2004-11-09 02:47 pm (UTC)Currently, I have it on my feet-- it spread from my toes (which initially from the itch I thought it was the woeful athlete's foot) all the way to my ankles. When it started on my fingers, I ran to the doctor. Since it's mainly on my feet, I've gotten a small tub that I've filled with that oatmeal bath stuff and it does sooth the itch a lot.
I'll also start with the baby oil in the bathroom suggestion! I used to put a little on before i put my clothes on, but then I found sometimes it stained my clothes, so I had to lay naked in bed for 10-15 minutes till the oil dried... which, I rarely have the patience for.
As for your comment about saltwater-- AHAH! So that's what started it! It began mid-July and aggravaed through till now, but it started after 3 months of constantly wearing sneakers soaked in saltwater! Ah hah!
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Date: 2004-11-09 03:24 pm (UTC)The Aveeno oatmeal bath does exactly two things for me, jack and shit. :( You're welcome to try it though, it might work for you. The Alpha-Keri bath soaks my dermatologist recommended didn't do jack for me either. The baby oil after showering made a night-and-day difference, though (the key is to put it on before toweling, not after drying off). I used to always put on crappy loose cotton clothes after I showered so that I wouldn't stain any good clothes with baby oil. It was only a few months ago that I figured out that if I apply it while showering, the excess will rinse off but I wind up with a nice moisturizing film all over me. Hooray!
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Date: 2004-11-09 10:10 am (UTC)The most commonly (to the best of my knowledge) prescribed remedy is a hydrocortisone cream. You can get them in non-prescription strengths over the counter.
The Allopaths I've seen about my eczema tend not to spend too much time rooting out the cause, but just throw remedies at the symptoms. Bottom line, something is causing your eczema. Assuming you haven't developed an allergy, eczema could be an reaction to dehydration, a build up of toxins in your body or to an overload of stress. The skin is a filtering organ.
Good luck. Sucks to deal with.
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Date: 2004-11-09 02:50 pm (UTC)My doc ruled out allergy because I have it primarily on one foot and not the other, hence it wouldn't be a factor of laundry detergent, carpet, and I didn't wear any toe rings (she did ask!).
Stress is probably a big factor-- I'm about to take my quals, which in graduate school, is a "do or die" scenario where my entire life may crumble before my eyes, no exaggeration.
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Date: 2004-11-09 10:16 am (UTC)Re: yet more ideas
Date: 2004-11-09 02:52 pm (UTC)Re: yet more ideas
Date: 2004-11-09 02:55 pm (UTC)Good luck with all this.
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Date: 2004-11-09 02:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-11-09 11:17 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-11-09 12:00 pm (UTC)You have my sympathies, and make sure you get treatment when it FIRST flares up.
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Date: 2004-11-09 02:39 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-11-10 12:50 am (UTC)Feel better - and don't let it get to the GRRROOOSSSS stage my son did!
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Date: 2004-11-09 02:01 pm (UTC)heya
Date: 2004-11-09 05:43 pm (UTC)I recommend the Aveeno body lotions. On another note, please visit this site: http://72.3.131.10/ It's an endearingly sweet reminder of why i love Americans.
take care,
love,
QumQuat
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Date: 2004-11-09 05:48 pm (UTC)I don't know enough about your job to recommend anything for your poor feets, but I've found coating my hands in in petroleum jelly and then wearing rubber gloves has been really helpful for protecting my hands when I need to expose them to water, dish soap, or other household irritants (the mineral oil based jelly provides an extra barrier of protection for my poor handses). Also, try coating your hands and feet with a decent heavy moisturizer before bed, then wearing socks and plastic gloves while you sleep. I like Burt's Bees hand and foot salve, but really any good moisturizer will work.
I had such a severe flare-up over my chest in my early twenties during a period of keen emotional stress that I looked like a burn victim. Fortunately, it didn't get infected, but yikes!
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Date: 2004-11-09 06:23 pm (UTC)Stress seems to be the biggest factor in most people I've come across who end up having their first breakout as an adult and my own skin condition flares up incredibly when I'm under stress - although for me salt water is a great way to calm it down as long as I don't let it dry on my skin.
Keep your skin moisturised, don't use anything highly perfumed and try to keep that stress under control. If you can - look into your diet as it can really help or hinder.
oh yeah!!! exzcema (had it all these years still can't spell it
Date: 2004-11-09 06:54 pm (UTC)i take
1. atarax (prescription) to stop the extreme itching
2. i use elidel (prescription) for the the eczema on my face and my hairline.
3. i use protopic (prescription) for the other areas of my body.
4. i also do not take a bath or a shower every day. :D
4a. if i do take a shower, i use not so hot water because that only makes the itching worse. and then you CAN'T stop scratching it. even if the skin is coming off.
hydrocortizone breaks down the skin over time and it is not good to use it continually.
aveeno is used just because i like to put something in my bath. does nothing for my ezcema.
seasonal changes in the weather mess me up royal. i try to keep my body hydrated by drinking tons of water and skipping out on the caffeine.
my biggest trigger has been sugar. SUGAR of all things. i don't know what it does to me. i just want it, but then i can't stop myself and before i know it, i am covered from head to toe in itchy spots.
when i was in high school, i was allergic to my clarinet reeds (bamboo)and had to go out and buy very expensive plastic reeds. can you imagine that? i would get these secondary infections all around my mouth. just imagine the teasing. i also had it on every finger but my thumbs from the bottom knuckle to the cuticle. my mom understood my pain. she always took me to the doctor for it. my brother has it really bad too.
stress is the other big factor. when i was getting divorced, my skin was a crawling and itching.
i have learned to live with it, but it sucks. every once in a while, i go tot see my dermatologist and he tells me the same thing, that it will never go away. it is worse when you are an adult. you don't get teased, but you feel that god could have done better when picking from the disease grab bag. i dread even getting a scratch because i know that when it starts to heal, my ezcema may take over.
it'll be okay though ms. c
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Re: oh yeah!!! exzcema (had it all these years still can't spell it
Date: 2004-11-10 12:38 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-11-10 08:28 pm (UTC)Elecon is a marvolous powerful cream.
Eczema caused hives to break out 3 weeks before my wedding. I get bumpies in a day compare to someone who would take longer.
I hate having it, and it explains why I get infected very quickly after a bug bite.
Eczema has spread to my face and my allergies doesn't help. I have to remind myself not to touch my mouth or face.
Good Luck!
:: Mona (http://www.macaby.com/) ::
mom has it too!
Date: 2004-11-10 11:46 pm (UTC)Re: mom has it too!
Date: 2004-11-17 08:10 pm (UTC)-Brian.. (can't wait to see all of you again)
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Date: 2004-11-19 12:10 am (UTC):-)